{"id":1120,"date":"2022-09-22T08:06:15","date_gmt":"2022-09-22T08:06:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hopetrustindia.com\/dev\/?p=1120"},"modified":"2022-09-22T08:06:15","modified_gmt":"2022-09-22T08:06:15","slug":"what-to-do-with-an-addicts-denial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hopetrustindia.com\/dev\/blog\/what-to-do-with-an-addicts-denial\/","title":{"rendered":"What to do with an addict\u2019s denial?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">Denial is part of the problem in addiction. The alcoholic or addict fails to see the prevalence and extent of his addiction, therefore resists or avoids treatment<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">Denial can be frustrating for those close to the addict. They can clearly see how he is messing up his life, but he or she doesn\u2019t seem to accept the facts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">If you don\u2019t have a problem, why would you accept a solution?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Denial needs to be broken for recovery<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">It is important that denial is broken, before any meaningful recovery can occur. Denial management is a science, very often it is an \u2018art\u2019. Addiction counselling, unlike other types of counselling, involves talking to an individual who is not ready to accept the basic problem and will employ subtle means to divert or deflect the therapy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">Sometimes, the addict may be openly defiant and pointedly dishonest. He or she will try every method under the sun to accept the reality.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">Understanding denial and its management are critical for initial treatment of alcoholism or <span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hopetrustindia.com\/dev\/content\/drug-addiction\"><strong>drug addiction<\/strong><\/a><\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Denial is human<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">Denial is part of human nature. It is a self-defence mechanism, helping us deal with significant pain. Denial makes us human. It helps us cope with pain. It may be triggered during particularly painful situations, such as loss of a loved one or end of a relationship. Individuals use denial to cope with ongoing stresses in life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\" data-mce-mark=\"1\">An addict or alcoholic would like to minimize the pain associated with his addictive behaviour \u2013 avoiding to feel the embarrassment, shame and guilt caused by his poor or unlucky choices. He or should would try and dissociate oneself from such situations by minimizing, blaming or justifying his or her role in the situations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">An addict would not be comfortable with the labels \u2013 \u201caddict\u201d\/ \u201calcoholic\u201d\/ \u201cboozer\u201d\/ \u201cjunkie\u201d and so on. Therefore he or she would try and project a non-addictive personality.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">The only way an addict can continue his or her use of substances is to rigorously apply denial. In the addict\u2019s perception, use of alcohol and drugs is critical for continued well-being. Thus, an addict will employ a wide range of denial forms to hide and defend is addiction. He or she may absolutely any abuse of substances whatsoever. When this becomes difficult, he or she will minimize the severity of the problem; they will hide, lie about, cheat or cover up their addictive behaviour. Soon they begin to actually believe their own lies and slip into strong denial.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Admitting the problem is first step in recovery<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">Therefore, for an addict or alcoholic to just admit that they might have a problem is a huge first step toward recovery. But this is just the beginning of recovery.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">The only way that people suffering from <span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a title=\"Substance Abuse\" href=\"http:\/\/www.hopetrustindia.com\/dev\/content\/substance-abuse\"><strong>substance abuse<\/strong><\/a><\/span> or alcohol problems can continue to actively use is through the rigorous application of denial, which is the true face of this condition. Everything about the disease of addiction is fraught with denial: addicts and alcoholics hide the existence of their problem, lie about the severity of it, steal, cheat and lie to cover it all up and lie to themselves about what the problem is really doing to their life. This is why admitting there is a significant problem and taking the first steps to get help is such a colossal achievement, but this is only the very beginning of denial management.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Denial management is an \u2018art\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">Addiction therapists employ a range of strategies for denial management. This may include individual counselling, group therapies and family interventions. The effectiveness of denial management is critical for ongoing addiction treatment and forms the basis for relapse prevention planning.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">False projections can be immensely stressful. Acceptance of one\u2019s real situation is rewarded by huge relief of stress. It can be done with the help of skilful counsellors who have learnt through to experience how to gently, yet effectively, penetrate the barriers of denial an addict builds around himself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">At <span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hopetrustindia.com\/dev\/\"><strong>Hope Trust rehab<\/strong><\/a><\/span> (est. 2002), denial management has been fine tuned to an \u2018art\u2019. The strategies involve family education and interventions. Individual counselling helps the addict separate the denial from reality. The therapists are skilled and experienced in denial management. This is done in residential, outpatient or online settings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Normal1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\">Once an addict or alcoholic accepts their problem, he or she is ready to take the solution!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Denial is part of the problem in addiction. The alcoholic or addict fails to see the prevalence and extent of his addiction, therefore resists or avoids treatment Denial can be frustrating for those close to the addict. 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